Don’t compare your messy backstage to someone’s presentable front stage
Things behind the scene are invisible to others. That’s the backstage. The ready-to-go portion shown to the world is the only part others see. That’s the front stage.
The ol’ sage advice is don’t compare your backstage to the front stage you see of others.
(This article is cross-posted from my other blog, Nonprofit Update, because it is something accountants need to keep in mind also.)
This applies in so many areas.
You know how your children behave at home or on a long vacation or how much effort it takes to get homework done. What you see in other families is the on-your-best-behavior public face and the brag-ready list of accomplishments that were oh so easy to achieve.
Compare the backstage of your family to someone else’s front stage as if that was actually a valid comparison and you will be distressed with either your children or your parenting skills. The most likely outcome is wondering why you are a failure as a parent.
Jeff Walker has a great video about that idea. He uses a messily hand-tailored shirt as a great contrast of the slick front stage and the messy, sloppy, slap-dash back stage.
Check this out:
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